Rubayyi Radi-Allahu-Anha's High Mindedness

Rubayyi-bint-Mu'awiz (Radi-Allahu-Anha) was a woman of Ansar, who had participated in many battles, by the side of the Prophet ﷺ. She nursed the wounded and carried the dead bodies during the battle. She had accepted Islam before the Prophet ﷺ emigrated to Madinah. She was married when the Prophet ﷺ was in Madinah. He graced her marriage with his presence. He heard some girls singing an epic poem about the battle of Badr at her place. One of them sang a verse, which meant:

"We have among us the Prophet ﷺ, who knows what is to happen tomorrow."

He stopped her from saying such things, because nobody except Allah knows what is going to happen in future.
It was Hadhrat Rubayyi (Radi-Allahu-Anha's) father Hadhrat Mu'awiz (Radi-Allahu-Anhu) who was one of those who killed Abu Jahl in Badr. Abu Jahal as we know was one of the big chiefs of Qureysh and the worst enemy
of Islam. There was a woman named Asma who used to sell perfumes to the ladies. She once came to Hadhrat Rubayyi (Radi-Allahu-Anha) to sell perfume. When Hadhrat Rubayyi (Radi-Allahu-Anha) was introduced to her as the daughter of Hadhrat Mu'awiz (Radi-Allahu-Anhu), she remarked:
"So you are the daughter of him who killed his chief."
Hadhrat Rubayyi (Radi-Allahu-Anha' s) high mind could not tolerate the wretched person like Abu Jahl to be mentioned as the chief of her father. She therefore retorted:

"No, I am the daughter of one who killed his slave."

Asma did not like this epithet for Abu Jahl, and said with anger:
"It is haram for me to sell perfume to you."
Hadhrat Rubayyi (Radi-Allahu-Anha) said, in the same strain:
"It is haram for me to buy perfume from you. I have never found stink in any perfume except yours."
Hadhrat Rubayyi (Radi-Allahu-Anha) says:
"I had used the last words simply to provoke her."
Look at her sensitiveness and feeling for Islam. She could not tolerate an enemy of Islam being mentioned a chief.

We hear from the lips of Muslims most flowery and highsounding epithets being used for the open enemies of
Islam. When they are reminded, they call it narrow-mindedness.

The Prophet ﷺ says:
"Don't call a Munafiq a chief. You displease Allah when you take him as a chief "

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